I have a friend named David VanKoevering who invented the synthesizer in the 1970′s along with his friend, Don Moog. (Hence the name, the Moog Synthesizer,) as well as the VanKoevering piano, and the original laser disc.) David is a quantum physicist who reminds me of Doc from Back to the Future. He gets wildly excited when he talks about the implications of the discovery that light is indeed slowing down. Apparently Einstein was wrong about this one. Why would this possibly matter?
“BECAUSE!,” David exclaims. “Because it means you can have an EFFECT before the CAUSE. Scientists hate this. You have the power to REMEMBER your perfect future!”
Whether we are talking about your business, your sport, your personal life, I believe this is the first step.
Here are my Non Wild-eyed Steps to Indeed Remembering Your Perfect Future:
How to Remember Your Perfect Future
Almost a hundred years ago, magnificent mind boggling discoveries began
to be made in the field of quantum physics and quantum mechanics.
These laws seemed to defy regular physics.
Eventually it was discovered that all matter is part of a sea of connected atoms
and subatomic particles. What’s more, these particles are simply frequencies
of energy spinning in “states of possibilities” Time does not even exist in
this realm. Everything past and future is spinning in a place of right NOW.
I could go on, and give you a resource guide of 70 books to read on the subject,
but the important thing is this:
This sub-atomic matter doesn’t even exist in our dimension until we observe it.
That means we have to see the unseen before it becomes visible to our natural
eyes. The more clearly we observe in our imagination, the faster it becomes “real.”
That place where you see the desired outcome, and feel the gratitude for it, is
the place of faith. Right now, your faith is giving substance to things hoped for.
On the negative side, your fears are giving substance to things dreaded. They
can’t coexist without canceling each other out. The frequencies of fear and faith
are opposite.
You hear this physics when you slip on a pair of noise-canceling headphones in
an airplane. The headphones create equal and opposite frequencies to counter act
the airplane noise that you hear. The result feels like silence to you, but all the energy
of those sounds is still around you. Your observation just changed.
The energy is still all around you.
The point is: Your God-ordained future is yours to co-create, while your past is subject to new
interpretation.
No, you can’t change the past, but you can change the meaning you give to
past events. You can change the power past memories have on your present
state, and on your future.
You can come into agreement with the “High and Lofty One who dwells in eternity”
and find out the plans he has for you. His plans are to prosper you and not to harm
you, to give you a future and a hope.
How do you do this and step into this Divine Destiny?
Here are the steps that have caused me and Mr. Parris to personally experience dozens
of miracles over the past 20 years.
1. Turn off all the noise and static.
Stop letting things into your eyes and ears that feed fear and confusion.
This seems obvious, but I’m amazed at how many people will fill their mind
with stuff that has nothing to do with where they want to go.
2. Find a promise and cling to it
This works for people who don’t believe the Bible, but I happen to
love and trust this book the most. It was Jesus who said, “Whatever you desire
when you pray, believe that you have already received it and you shall have it.”
Once I have a promise about something, I say it all the time, sing about it,
and write it on my mirror as already done.
3. Get clear on what you desire!
Remarkably most people don’t get what they want, simply because they
don’t really KNOW what they want. Get over the fears of your own desires.
If we all got what our hearts truly wanted, we would all get different and
correct stuff.
I’m not talking just about material things. However, it is fun to practice
using your faith on tangible stuff, because it’s just so – TANGIBLE!
3. Be thankful BEFORE the answer arrives
Once you’ve asked for what you want, stay thankful. If doubts arise spend
more time practicing how you would feel if it were a “done deal.”
Remember – Faith rejoices, gives thanks and is glad. Fear despairs,
complains and is sad. Stay in faith. Stay in gratitude.
4. Practice, practice, practice!
Practice acting like your ideal future is hear now. Practice
BEING the person who lives the ideal life. Practice having desires,
seeing mental images, and speaking words that are all in harmony
with each other.
5. Walk in love and forgiveness
Finally, it is important to stay completely free from resentment,
jealousy and strife. Remember, you can’t change the past, but
you can change the meaning you give to past events. (or present
events!)
Forgive yourself and others for their shortcomings. Just about
everyone is doing the best they know how with the tools they have.
Receive God’s love because His love NEVER fails, or disappoints.
As you do these steps, you will realize that your perfect future
has already been completed so there’s nothing for you to struggle
over. You can get to the place where you simply…
REMEMBER!
When you remember, you will discover the resources and tools
that help you bring it to pass.
I hope that it turns out that I can be part of your “make it happen” team!
Let me know what is working for you in these areas. I love the mental part of
seeing your dreams come true as well as the tactical part.
Please comment below.
Until next time – keep playing to win!
In your corner,
About Gina:
Gina Parris is an internationally sought after speaker and coach who helps individuals and organizations skyrocket their success by mastering their mindset and changing their actions. Using proven systems for personal and business success, Gina and her executive team offer a holistic approach to achieving financial, personal and spiritual breakthrough.
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What if you could overcome your fear and move powerfully towards your hearts desire? What would you be, do and have then? You would quite possibly have no limits!
Most people in the world today are riddled with some kind of fear. They are trapped by a fear of loss, fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of disappointing others, fear of pain, fear of death and on an on.
At the same time, most of these people are unhappily living beneath their potential. Their fears keep them from stepping out and moving forward. In fact, most people would stay in a situation they absolutely dread rather than face their fear of the unknown by seeking change.
Not you!
If you have ever been held back by fear than it is time to simply GO! This is not the time to go crazy, to go in circles, to go broke, or to go into debt. NOW is the time to GO FEARLESS!
Starting now I am sharing a series called, "Going Fearless." We'll look at how to overcome fear and anxiety by taking certain action. We will make progress towards something that matters. We'll go there together. Remember this too: Your success is not so much about arriving at a destination as it about the person you become along the way. If you become a champion on the inside – it won't be long until your life outside reflects that in every way.
1. Step Number One: Know Where You're Going
Years ago when Paul and I were living in Germany, I loved any excuse to drive on the autobahn. Our little Mercedes was made for speed – and I enjoyed driving faster than a hundred miles per hour. The problem is that this was long before GPS devices were invented to handily tell me where to turn. I remember one time thinking I was driving to Bavaria and feeling very lost. I looked at my husband, who had just woken up and yelled, "Well, I don't know where we're going, but we're making good time!"
As I recall, he did not find that funny.
Sometimes in our busy lives it is easy to feel like we're "making good time," because we are so crazy busy. However, being busy is not the same as being productive. My friend, Paul Tran says, "Don't tell me how busy your are, show me your results!"
Since time is going to fly by anyway – it is important to know where you want to be after a period of time. You may not be able to control when something comes to pass, but you can take consistent action towards making it happen. That's when you face the fear that says it can't be done, and you find out that indeed, it can!
What if you just don't know what you want? Sometimes our "vision" gets blurry. I believe that is because we have not been around people whose success inspires us. Most of the time, our vision is triggered by what we see. The LIttle Leaguer decides to play professional baseball after watching a pro ball game – even if just on TV. Something about watching the Big Game inspired vision plus emotion. Not everyone who dreams makes it, but I guarantee that each one who makes it – dreamed of it first.
VISION PLUS EMOTION is Empowers you to move
If all you are ever exposed to is more of what you already have, it will be hard to get very clear on something greater. When you let yourself dream of something greater, you can get honest about the fears that are trying to stand in your way.
So, your step one to Going Fearless is to get fixed in your mind a clear image that feels emotionally great about what you want and where you are going. If you can put those pictures into a slide show that you look at often, all the better. Get it so fixed in your mind that your whole heart overflows with gratitude that its coming to you.
Next week we'll look at Step 2 to Going Fearless – Becoming Who You Are.
Until then you keep playing hard and enjoy your game! I'll be right here…
In your corner,
Gina Parris
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Are you needy?
Earlier this week one of my friends, the lovely @CarlaYoung,
asked if we have a “to don’t”
list as well as a “to do” list. I replied that I have one for sure
and it’s always directed at my children:
“DON’T ever date needy people.”
You know what a needy date is right? Someone who is insecure
and needs you to fulfill their self-image and self esteem, and
to in fact be their happiness committee. It’s an impossible and
unfair job. Do not ever fall into it.
This raises the question though, are you needy yourself?
As I work with different people from all over the world it
is interesting how often they tell me what they “need.”
Have you ever found yourself making any statements like these:
I need more money. I need more confidence. I need to lose
weight, I need to get organized, I need to get stronger, I need to
get healthy, I need new shoes… The list goes on and on.
It’s easy to accept such statements as a natural part of our
vocabulary, but I think talking about your need keeps you
in a “needy” state. Why? Because you are telling yourself that
on some level you are incomplete.
That is nonsense!
You are complete now and if you act as if you have already
achieved your goal, you will accomplish it with greater speed.
You may be thinking, “Yes, but I really need ___________.”
Fine – than go get it, be it, do it, whatever! Just don’t stand
there talking about needing it. You can’t be needy and powerful
at the same time. Talking about your need is giving your power
away, and I want you to STAND in your power.
I recommend that you start to notice the words that come out of
your mouth. Are you talking about all your lack and everything
you need, or do you speak with gratitude about all you have?
Awareness is the first step towards growth. I know I want to
raise my awareness of everything that is great.
How about you? What are some things you’ve been thinking
that you “need” but that really you will choose to just get?
I’d love to hear about it.
Until next time, keep playing to win and I’ll be right here…
In your corner,
Gina
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